I believe the best way to teach children proper behavior is to set standards and expectations. Let them know in advance what you want them to do and what the consequences will be if they don't comply.
- For a dressy occasion - You don't have to like the dress, but you will wear it to show the proper respect for the situation.
- For someone else's party - No it's not your party, but you get to enjoy it and get cake and ice cream.
- For going out to dinner - No one wants whine with dinner. You can order steak. Start whining and we go home and eat hot dogs.
- For school work - I don't expect perfection. I do expect you to do your best.
Don't be afraid to hug, kiss, and say, "Mommy loves you" (the louder the better) in front of their classmates.
Julie
