Dear Dr. Laura,
I meant to write to you back when I heard your podcast commentary about parents who fight in front of their children. That was my childhood. My mother and stepfather fought continually while I was growing up, and it didn't matter who was there to hear it.
I would secretly hope for their divorce just so I'd have some peace. I can't tell you how many weekend mornings I awoke to the sound of their yelling, how many meals were ruined by crashing dishes, or my parents stomping off from the table.
At a very young age, I promised myself that I would never fight in front of my future children. I married a wonderful man when I was 35 and we quickly had two boys. I followed through with my promise. We never fought or had harsh words in front of our children. I have always been at home with my boys. I am proud that I have chosen wisely and have been treating kindly. I am confident that I will continue to be a good mom and provide a happy home for my boys. I have no regrets about my marriage and for that I am thankful.
My story is another example of how important it is to choose wisely and treat kindly. Please don't use my name if you read this on the air, thank you.
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