Hi, Dr. Laura!
As newlyweds, we discussed how we treat each other when the other is not around. I worked with several young women who thought nothing of bashing their husbands, telling daily stories of their downfalls. I finally had enough, and let them know that these were their partners, chosen by them, to live out their lives. I asked them how they would feel if they knew their husbands were speaking about THEM in this negative way to their buddies. This shut them up.
A year later, when one of my co-workers got married, pulled me aside and thanked me for the advice I had given. She told me that knew her relationship with her new husband would be strong, as she has chosen to only speak kindly when discussing him.
This warms my heart. Thank you for all you do.
Sincerely,
Melody
What's the best piece of advice you have ever given to a friend? Tell us, by signing up for the FREE Dr. Laura Family and send an email here.
