I am a mom of a blended family, with 5 kids. When we married, they were ages 3,3,5,7,9, the oldest and youngest being biologically mine. Now, they are 20,20,21,24,25. As they got older it become important that I was home. Odd, you'd think they wouldn't need a mom, but they do.
I'm still at home 24/7. I cook dinner nightly, and when the kids have time between work and school, they actually come home for dinner. I've noticed dinner together is imperative. The kids have a free for all conversation about everything and anything.
My bond with my kids is amazing. When they have question I try to help them. When they are upset, I try to comfort them. When they just want to talk, I'm always there to listen. I may not always have the answers, but I believe my constant presence has made them great adults. They are respectful, accountable, responsible, and reliable. I loved and still love being home for my kids.
As they got older I contemplated whether to go back to work, but my husband and I believe my presence is still important. I'm so grateful I've been able to be home to raise my kids, and my husband works so hard to ensure that it happens. I have no regrets. It's been the hardest job I've ever had/have, but it's all been worth it.
Rachel
P.S. My husband's children's bio-mom completely exited the kids' lives about 8 years ago.
