I am a longtime listener, my kid's mom and my husband's girlfriend. We have been married more than 30 years.
This week, I had my annual physical. It began, as always, with my weight and height. I was glad to find out I hadn't gained any weight or lost any height this year, since I am post-menopausal. That night at dinner, I told my husband my results. He said, "Considering what often happens with women your age, it's as if this year you actually became taller and skinnier."
I picked wisely and have treated kindly, and my husband is a prince.
Maggie