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04/05/2016
Hi Dr. Laura:
I thought I'd share a story about how my husband and I handle any disagreements we have. When we aren't necessarily on the same page, I ask him how he thinks we should handle the situation and then tactfully communicate my take on it.
Years ago, when we had a heated argument one time, he told me that I was always telling him what to do, and that I needed to stop that. While steam was coming out of my ears at the time, he really did cause me to reflect on my behavior. I didn't even realize that I was doing that until he said something and I stopped and thought about it. He's not one of my children, so I should not have talked to him like one.
Since my moment of insight, we have not had any "screaming matches" in about eight years. Ours is now a peaceful and happy home, and that's reflected in our relationship.
Lillian
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