01/05/2018
Dr. Laura:
A very important part of marriage is forgiveness and making sure that all differences are settled between you and your spouse.
My wife passed away in September, and I want to share with you our last conversation before she went to sleep that night. She had gone to bed while I went to shower. Upon my return, I found her wide awake, which was unusual for her. As I entered our bedroom, she looked up at me and said: "I love you." I hugged her and said "I love you too" and got in bed.
She died around 3 AM that next morning. I am so thankful that our last words were sweet words, else I would have to be eating bitter ones now. It pays to have all differences settled before going to bed at night or before leaving for work. One never knows but those last harsh words will be what you will have to live with the rest of your life.
Ronald
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