The line that hooked me was "I work to live. I don't live to work". My husband and I have been married for 37 great years and he has held steadfast to what is important: God, his family, and what is morally and ethically right.
It was what he didn't do that won me over. He didn't spend a lot of money on our dates which made me realize he wouldn't spend money we didn't have. Although he has a competitive nature, he didn't see the need to be a-know-it-all with others because he was comfortable in himself. Fred didn't want to be better than our three boys-now grown with wonderful wives and careers-he wanted them to be smarter and stronger, but in reality he provided them with the tools to succeed in life. He has been a great example of how to be a devoted husband and father. He didn't put on airs around me or others, but was naturally funny and "normal" - fun to be with and with whom I always felt comfortable and accepted.
Since we started dating my husband has remained constant in who he is-an intelligent man, a good provider, a present father, and a wonderful husband. I chose well! I am blessed.
Thank you,
Susan
