My daughter was very difficult to raise, but you helped us through the hard times, and she has grown into a wonderful adult. This is a letter she wrote to me from college - Clara.
Happy Birthday Mom.
I know it's not much, but I decided to write you a letter to tell you everything you mean to me. You are the strongest woman I have ever known. I admire you so much for all you have accomplished and who you are. I hope when I have kids I can raise them as well as you have raised us. It wasn't always easy, but I wouldn't change a thing.
I am so fortunate to have someone who will love me forever unconditionally… someone who can sense the change in my voice and know something is really wrong. You have always been there for me, even when I was horrible to you (sorry). You have done so much for me, like type my papers when I procrastinated, bought certain foods because you knew my friends were coming over, or quizzed me on my Spanish words so I didn't completely flunk my test.
In biology, we studied different animals and behaviors. I was trying to come up with an example for the behavior "altruistic" to put in my notes, and you were the first thing that crossed my mind. “Altruistic” means showing unselfish concern for the welfare of one’s offspring. That one word encased everything you have ever done and continue to do for us. I may not always appreciate you as much as I should, but know every minute of every day I am incredibly grateful you know how to be my mom and my friend and you keep my secrets when there's no one else I can tell.
I love you with all my heart.
Love,
Your daughter
