My criteria for judging a good friend is that I feel happier after a visit. I know I am in bad company when I always feel drained and unhappy after a visit. There are people who will suck the life out of you, if you let them.
I have a friend who is a
drama queen. She is single, 52 years old and uses her friends to fill the void in her life; by soliciting attention from everyone all the time. The good news is, she will be there for you when you need her. However, she is Ms. personality to EVERYONE. I have come to realize that this just another way for her to always be the center of attention.
I try to see the good in people and ignore the rest. In the end, it comes down to a matter of choice. What are you willing to deal with to keep this person in your life; and is it worth it?
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