Dear Dr. Laura,
I married the man of my dreams 2 years ago. I married him with no kids of my own. He has children from a previous marriage. The kids are well-behaved, respectful and he has a cordial working relationship with his ex-wife. All those things should be enough but they are not.
We got pregnant on our honeymoon with our son. I find myself frustrated when his kids are here. I'm a stay-at-home mom but am resentful that I have to give my attention equally to his kids as well as my own son. My husband and I have had many disagreements about his children. Even though he tries to parent equally with me, it's just not working.
Dr. Laura, I'm a good person and have never been jealous or angry before. Everyone looking in would think that we have it all together but I can tell you in my heart, I wish I had married someone with no kids, like me. I'm miserable a lot of the time trying to make it all work and wish I would have listened to your advice.
I hope this helps other listeners out there to follow your advice. No matter how good it seems, blended families do not work. Thank you for all you do and keep up the good work.
Sincerely,
Casey
