Hi, I'm Dr. Laura Schlessinger and welcome to our YouTube channel, where I get to answer your questions and you don't get to argue back. [Laughs]  (I like that part a lot.)  This one's from Casey:

"I'm middle-aged, divorced and then widowed and I have dated quite a bit since. I've recently met a wonderful man, who I really can see a future with.

However, he is just not good in bed. How do I say that to him without jeopardizing our relationship? I have tried to guide him, let him know what is working but he is just not 'grasping' it.

I don't want to end a relationship over horrible sex ..."

Well okay, then have a fight about the car because if you have a guy who is really not interested in pleasing you and he's not really motivated to rock your world and make your day, and you're giving hints and giving directions and responding in ways to let him know, then he really doesn't care about your pleasure and I wouldn't marry that. 

In the case of "he's not good in bed," I wouldn't even be dating that.  Not that you should be having sex when you're just dating...I think I just got myself in a conundrum, but that's okay, you get what I mean.

I'm Dr. Laura Schlessinger.  Until next time on our YouTube channel.  [Smiles and laughs]

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