April 7, 2016
Parenting Tips


Dr. Laura:

I have some experience at raising well-behaved kids, so here's what I've learned that I want to pass along:

1. Be kind.  They need to be loved always.  The words we speak to them are so important!  They need our time, affection and approval.


2. Be an example.  If we do it, they're just little "mirrors."  If they're yelling and talking back, are YOU yelling or speaking "snarkily" to them?


3. Stop the bad behaviors and correct them.  Give a firm scolding, an explanation of what they did wrong and what's appropriate, followed by a hug (not a reward, but they must know that you love them despite your having to correct them).


4. If there are persistent behavior issues, get to the root of them and adjust your tactics.


5. Be the parent!  Just because they argue like a lawyer or won't stop, doesn't mean you have to give in to them.  

Thanks for the chance to share what's taken me years to figure out.

Brianna



Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM