September 9, 2015
When the Brat Urge Comes On


Dr. Laura, 

Recently, you had a call that caused me to pull over my car as I was in tears from the female caller's insightful and humble conversation. She no longer wanted to have a privileged and entitled attitude that caused her to be a brat when she didn't get her way. She wanted to change; she wanted to be more others focused, so she could someday be a great wife and mother. I was so moved by this young lady's courage to look in the mirror, own her stuff and not be defensive, and have true desire to change. Her future husband will be lucky to have a young woman with such a humble heart, yet still won't settle for less than being cherished, and understands it is not all about her. 

I was so moved, because I am married to a woman who only talks about herself, never inquires about others.  If I don't meet her every demand, I am verbally abused.  She is so caught up with herself she has no idea she is about to be single again.  Our kids are grown, and out of the house, so there are no responsibilities left on a man desiring to be set free. 

Your sage advice to this young lady was spot on: she was on the right track and is to be commended.  And when the brat urge comes on, treat it with candor and humor while taking a "time out". 

Thanks for your work.....the tears were refreshing, and spoke volumes to my heart. 

Rick


Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM