Dr. Laura,

I have been an avid listener for over 20 years. I really enjoy your program with your no nonsense approach to marriage and family.

My husband and I celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary this past October. I can honestly say that I have never felt the need to check his phone, email, or check "up" on him in any other way. I know he feels the same about me. If you have a spouse like mine and you treat each other the way you deserve to be treated, there is no reason to check.

I generally get up and head to work before he gets up. I try to be quiet in the morning so as not to wake him. He was actually up when I got up this morning and sent me this text: "It was nice seeing you this morning. I cherish every second I have with you. Have a great day Red." No matter how hectic my day may get I can't imagine starting it off any better.

After 30 years he still cherishes spending time with me, and I with him. If more marriages would actually spend the time to think about what they can do to make their spouses life better every day, then the divorce rate would surely have to go down. Keep fighting the good fight for marriages and family. You are truly a beacon in the dark.

Sincerely,

Mindy