October 26, 2015
A Special Birthday Gift

Dear Dr. Laura,

Yesterday was my 48th birthday and one of the best presents I have ever received was the card written by my 15 year old son. I have been married almost 23 years to a wonderful man and am a stay at home mom to my 17-year-old daughter and my 15-year-old son. I am used to getting thoughtful hand written cards and letters from my daughter. Typically my son will see if he can get away with just signing his sister's card.

He is now a Freshman at an all boy Catholic high school where they emphasize becoming "Men" on a daily basis. He is thriving. My hope is to raise children that are good people, self-sufficient, and grateful. I know we still have to navigate the rest of high school, however, receiving this card really made me feel like he is understanding the message of how real men treat others. I was so proud, I had to share his words with you. 

"Mommy, Thank you for putting up with me all the time especially when I do not listen to you. Thank you for taking me places because I cannot drive yet, and that may inconvenience you. Thank you for waking up really early to take me to school early because I did not finish my homework. Thank you for loving me all the time even though it may be really hard at many times. Thank you for always being there for me so I know that I have someone to talk to in time of need. Thank you for helping me with my homework when I do not that the motivation to do it by myself. Thank you for pushing me to do my best in what I do. Thank you for being you and I am so glad that you are my mother. I would rather not have a mother than not have you. I love you mom and Happy Birthday!" 

I have been listening to you for over 20 years and am so thankful for all the good advice. I know it has helped me become the wife and mother I am. Thank you for doing what you do. It means a lot to those of us who didn't have parents to turn to for advice.

Thanks,

Doris



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