Friendship is like marriage without intimacy! Most friendships are broken-up over personal matters that get spread around by accident or intentionally. 

If one person shares personal issues with a friend regarding their spouse or marriage problems, there's a certain code of confidence or privacy to be expected. If that friend breaks the code protocol and informs others about it, he or she would no longer be trusted. 

Regardless of agenda, relationships are similar. Whether it be a friend, or loved one we should all be doing more "Treating Kindly".