September 9, 2014
Use of Profanity in Public


A man entered the Smith Haven Mall in NY and proceeded to the Apple Store wearing a shirt with the f-word several times in bold letters across his chest. I informed the manager and then attended to my business. I kept the manager and man in my sight while I addressed my business, but the manager did not approach the man. I thought about leaving it alone, but then I heard you reminding your listeners that you go out of your way to stand up for what you believe in. And so, I did too. 

I walked over to the man and took his picture. I then shared my thoughts on his attire and implored him to think about how he might feel differently if he were a father. I turned to his girlfriend, who defended her boyfriend's clothing choice. I asked her if she were a mother would she permit the use of profanity in front her child. I then questioned her standards and suggested she find a real man to date. After, I went back to the manager and asked if he intended to address the man. He told me he was busy with other customers. I informed the manager that I took a picture and would follow up with the Apple Store. 

I contacted both Apple and the Simon Mall. Neither has a policy concerning this. If the man were shirtless, he would be escorted from the mall. But wearing profanity is acceptable, according to both policies. I would like to add, no one supported me in the store. When I first addressed the manager another patron agreed with me, but I was left to make my case, with no support from my fellow parents. 

I agree with you, that we are a complacent species. My only hope is that I emboldened another citizen to stand up for what is right in the future, when you or I are not there to handle it for everyone else. 

Karen






Posted by Staff at 10:58 AM