October 15, 2015
Lazy Parenting


Dr. Laura:

During the 23 years I was a school secretary, I heard every excuse from parents for their child's misbehavior:  "She had to be late to class because her boyfriend broke up with her," "Yes, he did have my permission to miss school yesterday;" "My daughter would never have talked back to that teacher if he hadn't given her an F on the test," and the list goes on.  My conclusion is that many parents today would rather face down a teacher, principal, child's boss or another parent than face down their own child!  They're afraid of them - afraid they won't be considered the "cool parents" or their "buddies."

That was never the case in our house, where my husband and I raised six children.  We were busy feeding, clothing and sheltering our family.  Today all six children are on their own with families that they support and raise.  They have jobs and are all active in their churches and communities.  They love each other and respect and love us.  We were proud to be the "uncool parents" when they were growing up!  

Thank you Dr. Laura for being a voice of reason in a world of parents too lazy to be consistent or unpopular.

Theresa


Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM