Dear Dr Laura, 

I am a stay-at-home mom of 6 and my hubby's girlfriend. We are very blessed our marriage has lasted 36 years, being we were some of the "idiots" that were married at age 19 and 20! If any of our kids even thought of doing that, we'd lock them up and throw away the key for at least 5 years! 

My husband is a manly man. He worked full time and part time to take care of our family. When our children were small, he always commented, "When they are all in school, you can get a job!" I wasn't a fan, as I know the before and after school hours are crucial to having a parent home. Once the children were all in school, I said, "Maybe I should get a job?" He said I needed to be home! What changed his attitude?? Listening to years and years of YOU! 

Now all of our kidlets are grown. They are from 25 to 35 years old. They have turned out to be good people. Many people have complimented to us about them that they are such caring people! Thank you for your guidance! 

Also, I just bought your book The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. I had always thought...what could I possibly learn now, at 56 after 36 years of marriage? Well let me say this, I learned things in the introduction! I am only in chapter one and already am happier in my relationship! I just don't want things to get stale with just the 2 of us being home. I was being a bit mopey and thought I needed some type of wakeup call and your book is doing just that! I am so thankful for a wonderful, loving husband! 

I just wanted to thank you for helping him understand the importance of a mom staying home with the kids. Also to thank you for freshening up our marriage! He knows I am reading your book, but I don't share it with him! I am being selfishly sneaky and making him happy!! I love you for all that you do for so many! Thank you again! 

Laree