I do believe delaying sex leads to a better relationship. My husband and I dated without having sex for religious reasons. We dated for a year and even though we DESPERATELY wanted to be together, our beliefs kept us apart. I believe waiting gave us the chance to really get to know each other and we both knew we were in the relationship because we enjoyed each other and not for the sex, since there was none. Exercising self-control is also VERY important, even though most people don't even know what those words mean!!

I was a virgin when we were finally married and I love the fact I had NO baggage from any dating relationships I had. I believe I can be a terrific wife and lover because of that. Not having sex while dating DOES get you dumped over and over again, but it shows you who really is in the relationship FOR YOU and not for the FREE SEX!!

Grace