Hello Dr. Laura!

Carl's letter to you about How Men View Sex also caught my attention. I've been thinking about learning a new, ahem, "skill" that is both exciting but rightfully very intimidating. Carl's letter motivated me to get over my insecurities and put it into action. I'd like to share it with you. I think you'll get a kick out of it.

I've known since I was a little girl one of my main purposes in life is to LOVE LOVE LOVE a man - my future husband. It's a special gift that I've kept a secret. (I'm 30, single and never married.) I've heard before about the importance of sex but something about Carl's letter made it click this time. All of a sudden I made a jaw dropping connection... I've only thought about my calling through the eyes of a female's idea of love. If my calling is to LOVE a man and his idea of love is sex... that means.... WHOA! I will need to be having LOTS of sex! That is some calling! LOL!

With the motivation from Carl, I've decided to start loving on my future husband. How can I love a man I have yet to meet? By learning to speak his language...

I'm learning how to POLE DANCE!!!

Not one family member or friend knows as this is 100% for my husband - and it will remain that way. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm a very conservative classy woman (think Kate Middleton). I get a mischievous smile on my face anytime I encounter a prospective man.... Is he worthy of my secret? Tricia's email is all the more encouraging. I can't wait to blow his socks off on our honeymoon and for years to come!

Thank you Dr. Laura!

B.