October 4, 2013
Fantasy vs. Reality

What makes my spouse better than any fantasy are numerous. The history we have shared for 57 years, along with the commitment, love and respect, and all the memories of a lifetime together can never be compared to a fantasy.

My husband lets me be "me". We have shared and joked about different fantasies for most of those years; but we both knew if we acted on them, they would no longer be fantasies and would be a threat to the kindness, caring, sharing, love and stability we had for a lifetime. When I look at my husband, I see the love in his thoughts, actions and eyes. I know that he loves me with all his heart. Acting out a fantasy would not have the blessings that come from a relationship that took years to nurture and build. And NO fantasy could ever compare to the good feelings I get from loving my husband so much and feeling even more loved and blessed in return.

My husband was my biggest fantasy when I was 17 and today he is still my strongest fantasy and the love of my life. A fantasy that would last one day, one night, or even a few years could never be worth the cost. Yes, a loyal, loving spouse is the greatest fantasy there is!!!!!! That will never be found flitting from bed to bed.

Fran

Posted by Staff at 11:15 AM