Dear Dr. Laura, 

I am a new listener to your show. You have given me so much strength to continue to do what is right for our family. When my husband and I had children, we both felt it was best I stay home with them. We knew it was the right decision for us, but even today we continue to receive much criticism. It is very reassuring to hear your messages. 

I work 8 hours a week and during those hours my husband is home with the kids. We made necessary changes to our budget and even though money is tight, it has always been the right decision. My female full-time co-workers have been critical of me because I don't work full time. They think I'm staying home with my kids to get a free pass from working. It is sad they don't realize the benefit of Mom being home to keep the family running smoothly. They have also criticized me for driving my kids to and from school every day. I can honestly say I have the best conversations with my kids on the ride to school. I treasure those conversations. 

My kids are now 15 and 11. One co-worker suggested I have my 15-year-old son watch my 11-year-old daughter 9 hours a day for the entire summer so I could work full time. I never asked for her opinion nor did I bring the subject up to her. I told her I am their parent and it is my responsibility not my son's. I let her know this is a family decision between my husband and me and we didn't need any suggestions! 

Thank you again Dr. Laura. I look forward to learning more! 

Susan