Dear Dr. Laura. 

I have been married for 27 years. And the time is coming up quickly on the one year anniversary since my wife and I have had sex. I totally accept 100% of the blame for this. You see...I stopped asking to have sex. Since then...nothing. 

What I came to realize is that my wife has no interest in me sexually. And at this point the most un-appealing thing to me is to be with someone who is not interested. I can't imagine ever being intimate with my wife again. It's kind of sad...funny...frustrating...that the one person in this world I find more attractive than anyone else, doesn't want to be intimate with me. Is it wrong of me to constantly think about finding someone else to be intimate with? I don't like my wife's negative feelings about sex, and I always thought sex in some way shape or form was supposed to be a part of being married. 

All I think about is being with someone else. In fact it is kind of like hating your job. I was always taught to keep the bad job until something else comes along. I guess I am waiting for that something/someone better to come along. 

Take care. 

Glen