I am fortunate to be a stay at home wife and mom. Because I stay home, I am more lovable and more able to receive love. After a long day, my husband and I take a shower together (which helps put us in the mood) and sometimes we get into our hot tub (if the shower doesn't put us in the mood, the hot tub certainly will).

Ladies listen up!  Take the reins into your own hands. When you take the initiative, you are more likely to want to make love. I have tested it myself and it works.

Also, listen to Dr. Laura; she gives great advice on such matters.

Susan