February 4, 2016
Buddy System

Dear Dr. Laura, 

I want to give you some advice you can share with your listeners. My advice is this, if you come from an abusive family and think or feel that family get together are horrible places to be, then always ask if you can if you can bring a friend.  

When I am around my family for any amount of time, it's totally possible that a family member will behave in a way that is consistent with the old "family stories".  Often, its hurtful and aimed at me. When I do bring a friend with me, everything changes.

I find it amazing how much easier it is to protect myself. I can also use it as a deflect attention away from myself, so I am not an easy target or nearly as vulnerable.  

So, when in doubt, always bring a friend! It works for me. 

Sincerely,

Jean



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