July 8, 2015
The Grass Isn't Always Greener


A few days ago, my family and I were on a day trip with a friend and her kids riding in two cars. I'm not sure why, but during the drive I started having a pity party for myself. I was thinking how sad it was my husband doesn't bring me flowers for no reason, or other little things like that. 

On the way home, my friend's car broke down. We got out to help her and my husband began asking for the normal things to have in a car: water bottles, rags, spare quart of oil... She didn't have any of the things we needed. Her car got fixed and we all got home safe. And then it hit me... 

I have the kind of husband who makes sure I have everything I might need. He may not bring me flowers or be the most romantic man, but I know he is always thinking of me. He shows his love by making sure I'm always taken care of. These are things that make lasting marriages.  Anyone can send flowers, but a real man makes sure his wife is safe. My husband is in the Navy and his selflessness for our family, friends, and, most importantly, country amazes me every day. He is an incredible father and I finally realize he is also an incredible husband. I am going to get a copy of your book "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" so I can take care of him as well as he takes care of me. 

I hope this email will help wives realize that men show love in many different ways. 

Thanks for your candor and unapologetic advice. 

Holly


Posted by Staff at 10:59 AM